Haruffa da yawa daga iyayensu suna tambayar cewa yaransu suna son yin wasa tare da PLush wasa, amma yawancin yara sun fi son wasa tare da motocin wasan wasa ko bindigogi masu wasa. Shin wannan al'ada ce?
A zahiri, kowace shekara, yar tsana yar tsana za su karbi wasu tambayoyi game da irin wannan damuwa. Baya ga tambayar 'ya'yansu waɗanda suke son yin wasa tare da plash wasa da' yarnan wasan kwaikwayo, suna son yin wasa tare da bindigogin wasan wasan wasan yara, a zahiri, wannan yanayin yana da al'ada. Kada ku yi fuds!
A cikin tunanin ku, dan wasa masu kyau kamar 'yar tsana da' yan mata ne, yayin da yara sun fi son kayan kwalliya irin su. A lokaci guda, kayan wasa na ruwan hoda sune kayan wasa na 'yan mata, yayin da beyy wasan yara maza ne' yan wasan yara baki ɗaya, da dai sauransu a ƙarshe, sune yara masu jin daɗin jinsi?
Ba daidai ba, ba daidai ba! A zahiri, ga yara kafin shekara uku, kayan wasa na 'yan wasa ne da jinsi! Yaran da suke da samari ba su da kyakkyawar fahimtar jinsi. A cikin duniyar su, akwai wani misali guda ɗaya kawai don yanke hukunci - wannan shine, nishadi!
Idan iyaye daidai suke da kullun a wannan lokacin, yana iya haifar da wata lahani ga jariri. Lokacin da jariri kusan shekara 3 ne, yaran za su fara fahimtar jinsi a hankali, amma wannan ba ya nufin cewa yara ba sa iya wasa da motoci! "Fun" da "lafiya" har yanzu sune ka'idojinmu daidai don hukunta kayan wasa.
Kuna son rarraba kayan wasa? Tabbas, amma ga yara, 'yan wasa kawai suna buƙatar kasu kashi biyu: kwallaye, motoci, dols da sauran rukuni don taimakawa yara sun fi fahimtar duniya. Kada ku kula da ƙaunar yara da maza daban-daban na yara daban-daban!
Gabaɗaya, 'Yan wasa suna da jinsi, kuma ba za mu iya yin hukunci a kan abin wasa ba gwargwadon ka'idodin ƙungiyar jama'a! A ƙarshe, dan wasan Jagora na fatan duk ci gaban farin ciki.
Lokaci: Jan-13-2023